What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a standard type and fixed result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, always with regard for (shared) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, overjoyed state of being. The impact is often a wonderful physical, psychological wellness. Typically, the receiver is extremely relaxed, wonderfully streaming and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Most touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really like that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Filled with attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are actually out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the strategy or the desired sequence of massaging that is crucial, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is needed.
Tantric massages for that reason often take an extremely unexpected course. Whatever suits a bigger whole. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the very first step in a great development.
Ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limits
We knew it for a very long time, of course, however since the #MeToo discoveries, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver constantly should be ensured. Loving attunement always comes initially.
Set clear limits in advance
Everyone (other than when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is also necessary (check out the article on securing limits. So think beforehand (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Ensure there is a correct consumption, and a good preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits beforehand: about mental borders, as well as take care for clearness about physical boundaries. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must always be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is likewise completely okay (though hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a misconception that a tantric massage must be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have actually given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head. Also, in addition, really each cell is sensual, however you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Activating and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, always with regard for (mutual) boundaries. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays a crucial role again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of basic/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and awareness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Generally resulting in a terrific physical, psychological wellness
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is usually great, in some cases delicious. We, for that reason, welcome you to fully take pleasure in getting ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are many types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. Yet there is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (focused on recovery).
Relaxation is an important part of tantric massage, however of a totally different order than relaxation massage Why? Tantric Massage Well because you are really extremely energetic during/after the massage. You do not go to sleep (unless you are very exhausted), you are extremely alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual complete satisfaction, we would call it different. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a sort of fashion nowadays to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is a profession apart. Tantra massage certainly has healing results, but that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a detailed explanation, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand free, do not push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Build in integration (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried with exactly what they themselves discover pleasant, enjoyable, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", remain away from your own issues and above all ... do not try to require anything. Nothing has actually to be done, absolutely nothing is needed! Once again, don't try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are dissatisfied when someone falls asleep. You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No intended result. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard limits, set clear boundaries beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly really open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Understand that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can show up.
* Look out to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limitations from being crossed once again.
* Action by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment sounds) and provide combination moments (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean do not hurry towards the weather ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your entire body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (often totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as recovery, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn what it resembles to enjoy yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides a wonderfully liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The whole body takes part.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard form, without predefined result.
* With regard to (shared) borders.
* Develops a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Generally leading to a terrific physical, mental well-being (of both).